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Why sex work shouldn’t be taboo

Throughout history, the buying and selling of sex has been a staple in many different civilisations. Additionally, it is not unlike the growing fields of technology, music and athletics. Like these other cultural interests, sex work has evolved through the ages. Both the West and the Eastern world share a similar struggle for knowledge and understanding. In the West, sex work was initially limited to an elite and educated, a time period called the Renaissance, when sexual pleasure was associated with the birth of poetry, art and literature. Sex work was viewed as being tolerated and almost acknowledged by the courts, but largely unknown by common people. In the East, sex was seen as something that had to be hidden and protected.

Sex work should be seen as a valid profession, and sex workers should be treated as any other career. People who pay for sex should be treated with respect and with respect for their work. Conversely, individuals who practice sex work, in any of its forms, should be treated with respect as well. Nobody talks down to ambulance chasing attorneys, yet they predatory. They still serve a purpose in their society, as do those that work in the sex industry.

Through the various different types of sex work (burlesque dancers, sex chat, custom picture and video production, professional porn stars, escorts, strippers), many people support their families on their income. It is not degrading, nor is it a substandard profession. Why does society look down upon the various sex workers, yet applaud the individuals that solicit those in the sex work fields?

Working as a prostitute or escort worker can be psychologically draining, particularly if you find it hard to leave your job. People who choose this profession have to take responsibility for the consequences and should be permitted to make their own choices. The only time you should have a licence to hire or work as a prostitute is when you are using sex work as a source of income. Ensure the conditions for sex workers are legal and suitable to work in and reflect the integrity of those who do it. Only through acceptance and regulation can these assorted professions within the sex workers community receive the respect that they deserve.

If you are in need of companionship, or sexual release, you should be encouraged to consult with a local sex worked in your community. They are people like anyone else, and offer a unique service that could benefit nearly any consenting adult. Helping those that are lonely, or those that are in need of sexual release, in the past they were seen as a type of healer, and necessary for a society to function properly.

The next time you see a sex worker, don’t look down on them. They are providing a much needed service to your community. One day you may be in need of their services, and should that day arrive, please remember to treat them with the dignity and respect that their profession deserves.

Signs of Bullying In A Relationship and How To Deal With It

Over 1.5 million young people were bullied in 2018, according to a survey by Ditch The Label. While bullying is mostly a school problem, it happens in relationships; from teenage ones to married couples. The sad thing is, despite being in a seemingly happy relationship that even includes special dates with your partner, you may be a victim of bullying in your relationship and you don’t know it. The mental and physical health effects of bullying are diverse and long-lasting. That’s why it’s important to explore common signs to look out for and how to deal with bullying in a relationship.

Emotional Bullying

Relationships are supposed to be fun, interesting and generally happy. Planning great moments like movie nights and dates with your partner helps maintain that spark and is generally a good thing for both your lives. However, that does not have to be the sole indicator of a happy marriage or relationship. Other minor details that your partner intentionally does could be indicators of emotional bullying and understanding them is vital. Emotional bullying is hard to identify or admit to and is easily dismissed, especially if there are happy moments. If your partner is exhibiting the following 6 signs, then that is emotional abuse.

Interrupts All Conversations

No relationship is perfect, and that means you will not always see eye to eye with your partner. When disagreements occur, you should aim to solve conflicts through conversation and compromise. If you find that your partner is always interrupting you when you talk, then this is emotional bullying. If you cannot have a decent and productive conversation with a feasible solution, then you are being abused.

Accusations and Blame

“If you love me, you wouldn’t…” Sound familiar? You are being emotionally abused. At the end of the day, you are different people who will select different choices given the same chances. If your partner is always manipulating you using that statement, then that is a sign. Ending every relationship hiccup with tears is also an indicator.

Punishments and Vengeful Motives

Once you disagree and quarrel, the best thing to do is usually to bring it up later when you are both calm and apologize. But with emotional abusers, you will find this is not their default method. They seek to punish you for that mistake, however minor, by either ignoring your calls, hanging up or giving you the silent treatment. In extreme cases, revenge such as going out late, withholding sex, flirting with other people, or refusing to do house chores are common.

Threatens With Suicide or Divorce

When the two methods above do not work effectively, then an emotional abuser will threaten you, especially if you try to leave. If your partner always threatens to divorce you or commit suicide, then you are in an emotionally abusive relationship. Such people also bring up the past a lot during such episodes.

Unreasonable Demands

This mostly disguises itself as concern and love but lowkey infringes on your personal freedom. According to Dr Lisa Ferentz on Psychology Today, a partner who insists you spend all your free time with them, dress in a certain way or change certain things in your life is exploiting you emotionally. When you such signs, try to talk it over with your partner to see if it can change. Otherwise, seek counseling from experts.

Isolates You from Friends and Family

This sign of relationship abuse is one of the most extreme ones and usually, you will have gone through a couple of the ones above before you get here. It starts with wanting to spend all your time with them and slowly escalates to not spending time with anyone else. If your friends are complaining they don’t see you as much and it is not out of your choice, then please reevaluate your relationship.

Dealing With Emotional Abuse

Chances are you won’t know it is happening, but knowing signs to look out for can help. Once you spot any of these emotional abuse signs in your relationship, you need to have a deep conversation about it. If one of you is angry, try taking time to cool off before attempting a solution. Counselling, mediation or therapy should also be tried if you are both willing to get rid of the toxicity in the relationship. If it cannot be salvaged, then you might want to consider leaving before it escalates further.

Financial Bullying

This type of bullying happens in marriages, or with couples who are cohabiting. In some cases, it may be coupled with emotional abuse which makes it harder to spot in the instances it is not. The easiest indicator of financial bullying is you are restricted from using or earning money. Your partner may give you a monthly allowance and chastise you for overspending even by a dollar. You have to seek permission to carry out grocery shopping and necessities especially if your partner makes more money. Stay at home spouses are more likely to experience this.

Once you spot it, have a sit down with your partner and explain how you feel about it. Insist that you also make money decisions where the family is concerned. Making a family financial budget plan with an income and report should be a combined effort. On the allowance, both of you should have a reasonable allowance whose expenditure is fully transparent.

Physical Bullying

In 2018, over 2 million people were victims of domestic violence in the U.K according to the Office of National Statistics. Physical bullying is where your partner’s aggression escalates to a physical fight that actually leaves bruises on your body. It is critical to note that either gender can inflict physical harm regardless of their size. The earliest sign is usually hurling things all over the house during a disagreement. The anger is then directed at you and may extend to pets and kids.

Leaving may take a few tries but it can be done. The first thing to do is recognize it is happening and take a stand against it. You should then report it through a helpline if it is during one of those episodes. If not, seek out help, speak to someone about it and find an exit strategy. Be sure to protect the kids first if there are any and document the abuse interactions. It sounds dramatic but it will stand up both in family and child custody courts.

Bullying is never a one-time thing. If your partner is bullying you, expect more episodes of the same with an increasing frequency. Do not let it get to the physical bullying stage if you can. Otherwise, take steps to protect yourself out of that toxic relationship. Remember, bullying has a lasting effect on both your mental and physical health. Spotting the signs could save your life, literally.

How to make your penis big naturally?

We would all have a dream to a big penis. However, there is no way you would consider dangerous methods such as surgery, pills or pumps. Believe it or not, that your food plays a huge part in whether you can increase your penis size. Penis enlargement is made possible by increasing the blood flow to the spongy and elasticized cell tissues of the penis. Over time a large amount of blood flowing through these tissues can cause them to expand and eventually this will make the size big of your penis. But the question is how to make your penis big with food? Accordingly, anything you can do to increase the circulation of the blood may cause to increase the size of your penis. Steer clear of fatty, starchy and sugary foods. Ensure you eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and aim to eat lots of lean protein. This can include skinless, chicken, turkey, eggs, tuna, salmon, mackerel and trout. Finally, make sure to drink 2-3 cold water in a day.

Some important things to increase the size of the penis

Exercise your penis 15 minutes in a day and carry on this process 5 days in a week. When you do exercise the circulation of the blood becomes more increases and once the circulation of the blood increases the size of the penis also becomes increase. When you take to exercise the spongy tissue of the penis becomes larger and the circulation also becomes increases so the size of the penis also increases. Another type of exercise the stretching exercise, when you take stretching penis exercise, it may help to stretch the ligament which is placed at the top of the penis. The penis is surrounded by different types of ligaments and once these ligaments stretch the size of the penis may also increase. If you take proper diet and take healthy foods like fruits and healthy vegetable like onion, onion is the best thing to increase the size of the penis and if you take 3 exercises in a day when you see an increase in the size of the penis after a few weeks. For more significant, continue this process for 6 to 12 months for the better result.

Conclusions

Everyone has a wish nowadays to have a bid and erect penis. If you really want to enjoy the bedroom activities then one must have a big penis. And if you have a small penis then you cannot satisfy your partner and its very shameful. So everyone has a desire to have a big penis, to increase the size of the penis, the peoples use different kinds of things like different pills, oils, herbs, extenders and different types of the pump to increase the size of the penis. But to increase the size of your penis then you must give first priority to your foods because the food is the natural supplement to increase the size of the penis. Take healthy and nutritious food always like eggs, white meat, salmon and onion etc which is helpful to increase the size and erection of the penis.

Why Do We Suddenly Lose Interest In Our Partner While In A Long-Term Relationship – Scientific Background

It seems that we all know how crushing it can feel to say goodbye to someone with whom we shared that phenomenon called love. All the sad and beautiful things that can happen to one couple prove to be the best lessons that life can teach us.  Time makes havoc in relationships and one day you realize that you are still in that relationship due to inertia. There is no longer love, there is no desire, there is no longer interest. Continue reading

Sex Doll Buyer’s Guide – Find the Best Joy Love Dolls for You!

So you have decided to purchase a sex doll? Great choice! Love toys are a great investment for your personal well-being. Joy love dolls can provide companionship and sexual satisfaction at any hour of the day. But how do you know which love doll is right for you? The sex toy industry is growing quickly and the various options can seem overwhelming. Here’s a guide to buying a joy doll that is right for your personal taste!Continue reading