Ten golden rules for a new relationship

Every little thing is counted in a romantic relationship. Just a small and apparently insignificant gesture can be a great help in a relationship while a miss spoken word or an odd look can throw you in trouble. It’s hard to find a perfect person, but if you feel that you have found the right person to start a relationship, it’s best to give 100 percent effort. To give in the full effort, you need to be a little conscious with a few gestures you show to your new partner. It was always difficult to find a perfect match for a lifetime. Especially in new relationships, people nowadays often want to make sure that they are not with a cheating partner. Well, no one can guarantee that you might not face a cheating partner in any stage of your life. But following some golden rules you can give a solid start to a new relationship.

  1. Take time

If you feel that you have found someone genuine to start a relation, it’s best if you give more time to it rather than trying to declare your love right away.  Hold your emotion until you are sure that your newly found partner feels the same for you./ has the same emotions for you. Sometimes sharing your feeling with your best friend without knowing your partners feeling can become a wrong move. This kind of act can put them off.


Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love – Mother Teresa

  1. Show your best side/ grow his interest

When you are good at something even your partner should know it. There is no harm to show off a little because everyone wants to see an extraordinary side of their partner. It will help you to grow his interest in you. Be your best but don’t fool your partner. If they think something positive about you which you are not, try to be one.

  1. Be yourself

 Sometimes if you want to grow a long and healthy relation you need to be yourself because it’s important that your partner knows who you are. This helps to build the trust between the partners. Be honest. Don’t pretend to be something you are not. Don’t be a cheating partner yourself.

  1. Don’t reveal everything at your first date

It may seem to you that you have found the correct person to start a relation and you can share everything with her. But this may become a wrong move. Your Partner may not be ready to hear the emotional swings you had over the years on your first date. This can give her a wrong notion about you. You need to be very careful with a new relationship as you know the first impression lasts long.

  1. Appreciate what you like

You can appreciate the things you like about her, anyone would like that. It can be the place of your date, the food or most importantly her effort to make it the best date. Never forget to appreciate her effort. Admire your partner. On a regular basis let them know what you like most about them. Don’t hesitate to express what makes you proud of them.

  1. Give importance to your partner

Giving importance, making her feel that she is your priority can make a big difference in your relationship. In every relationship the partner always wants to know her place in your life and if you can make her feel that she is before everything and everyone in his life than you can expect a healthy relationship. Share her joy and sorrows. Celebrate their happiness, be there when they are sad.

  1. Give space to your partner

Sometimes if you stick to your partner he/ she might not get time to discover his real feeling for you. So it’s good to give some space so that he gets time to miss you and feel that he can’t stay without your company. Encourage and support them over the course of their love. Don’t be dominating. Don’t act like over possessive.

  1. Show your affection

In a new relationship, it is important to show some affection through small acts of physical intimacy. A hand on her back, your arm around her shoulder on the couch, a small brushing on their thigh, walking aimlessly with holding hands – conveys a warm feeling of affection for your partner. This is the time when the littlest touch can do a lot more than the longest night of sexual intimacy.

  1. Share yourself

Share your thoughts, ideas, interest, dreams, likes-dislikes, dreams success-failure to your partner. Don’t just keep it to yourself. In a new relationship sharing yourself with your partner is more important than sharing with anyone else. Share as much of yourself and your time with your partner. With you, gesture assures them that they are not with a cheating partner.

  1. Be there for your partner

For many of us being in a relationship means being secure. Having a soul mate means having a shoulder to keep her heads when she is feeling low. Make sure you are the first person who stands by them when they are in trouble.  If you are not by their side in their hard times they might think that they are with a cheating partner. Encourage and assure them when they are facing a major life challenge.  Constantly help your partner in building them up by exploring their potentials they haven’t been aware of.


John Eastham started his career as an investigator at an early age beginning in the area of Private Investigations. He provides quality investigation services in the UK and makes use of advanced equipment to solve different cases of clients. He presently works for www.privateinvestigationsuk.net as The Head of the Private Investigations.


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