Are you keen to extract some advices and suggestions that can make your relationship work or can infuse happiness in it? Well then to all your surprise there is no such magic wand or tips that can spice up your relationship overnight and make it going, instead it needs smart efforts from your own very end to rejuvenate it over the length of time.
Be it any color, shape, size, but when you see the two holding hand in hand and promising eternal happiness to each other, you just know it’s just nothing but the perfect couple.
It may be 30’s or 60’s but relationship and its vigor ideally remains the same for those who prefer their relationship over every important thing they encountered in various phases of life. In fact it was only your spouse by your side through all the paths that supported you and was credited for all those unexpected smiles on your dull, gloomy face.
In the rat race running life couples are predominantly focusing on minting money to afford the luxuries of life. But in an attempt to accomplish the materialistic goals they somewhere make their precious relations go shallow, creating fissures which are hard to recover from.
Many couples have confronted these problems and have always thought to chalk ways to make their relation work, but somewhere they utterly failed, perhaps because they didn’t made adequate efforts or somewhere were unaware. In case you too undergoing feuds and discrepancies in your relation then below are certain tips which can proof fruitful in ideally fixing the relationship glitches.
Ensure a strong committed relationship: – In case you are not married but have strong feelings for your partner, then reveal your feelings and convince him/her. Make sure that you overcome the crazy infatuation and refill the void with rich and loving relation for its not always a bright sunny day, at times even dark clouds besiege, so assure that you make high efforts to save your loving relationship.
Spend time together: – The best redress to wounded relationship is spending quality time
together. In case you have a ruined relationship, ensure that you spend more time together, take offs on the day, he/her has off and watch his/her favorite movie together. Go out for dinner or special lunch. Ensure you two spend most of the time together away from friends and near ones. Indulge in some mutual activity instead getting imperative with activities of your choice.
Discuss differences and settle them with a smile and hug: – When two come together in a relationship, differences are bound to come. One can’t be identical to any other personality. Each one has different persona and this should be ideally taken care while reconciling. Sit together and discuss the situations and circumstances which hurt you the most, talk to your partner about it. Breaking the ice would make it even easier for both of you. Pick up the faults done and clear the air rather than heaping grudges and keeping chip on the shoulder.
Honesty: – Make things go thread bare before you partner, affirm honesty in your words. Let your partner know every important thing that she/he is supposed to know. Deceit and mistrust stay far away from these words as once the trust and respect is lost, it’s gone forever.
Don’t impose your beliefs on your partner. Let him/her be a free thinker as everyone has a right to do that. Respect each other’s emotions and sentiments.
Author Bio- Subhadra Bhadauria writes for famous match making site JeevanSaathi.com. Understanding the human psychology well, she updates her readers on various articles, sharing views to accomplish happy marriage relationship.