The possibilities of making the kinds of connections you want are very realistic, and many long lasting relationships and marriages have begun via online dating services, not to mention casual relationships as well if that is what you prefer. The possibilities are all right there and waiting for you, but there are a few key rules you need to know and follow in order to find your perfect date online. Download to learn The Golden Rules of Online Dating – 6 essential rules to finding the perfect online date!
You met a girl of your dreams on Tinder or through your friend and feel like taking her to a date, well sounds good but what are your plans? Are you taking her to a candlelight dinner or on a coffee date?
No worries, I am here to help you out. All you need to do is follow these basic steps and you are good to go.Continue reading
A break-up is often one of the hardest things an individual will go through during their lifetime – and when children are involved, it can be even more difficult. Communicating during a break-up is not only important for your own mental health and well-being, but essential to ensure you can properly care for your children. Below we outline the importance of communication during a break-up.
In a recent study from Direct Line, 41% of parents who decided to stay together for their children didn’t tell their partner they were considering separation. Although communicating these feelings can be difficult, and we may be afraid of creating conflict, it’s best to have everything out in the open. Rather than stringing a partner along, and making a bad situation worse, transparency – and communication – is the only real way forward.
During a break-up, if the two individuals involved in the relationship fail to communicate properly, they may spend the rest of their lives wondering what went wrong. This can have a seriously negative effect on an individual’s mental health. If the couple is able to communicate effectively and explain why the relationship didn’t work for them (e.g. not enough emotional support) then the individuals can work on this moving forward and avoid this mistake in their next relationship.
Couples who decide to stay together for their children’s sake can remain together for years longer than they would otherwise. During these years, it is likely that arguments may occur and the relationship may turn toxic. This can be very harmful for a child to experience. During a break-up, it is therefore very important to communicate both with your child and ex-partner to ensure your child isn’t forced to choose sides or is harmed by the separation.
If you have a shared bank account, or other important policies that involve your partner, without proper communication you will be unable to organise your finances properly – which may result in you having to deal with long-term financial problems.
If you are currently going through a break-up and would like to improve communication with your ex-partner, the below tips may help…
Often during a break-up, as it is an emotional time, ex-partners can begin discussions by being very defensive and throwing accusations at each other. Before you start communicating, remind yourself that you are not perfect and be prepared to own up to the mistakes you have made. This honesty will hopefully encourage your partner to be more honest in turn, bringing you both closer to truly understanding each other.
Rather than stating a list of things your partner did wrong, carefully explain to them how their actions made you feel. For example, phrases such as “You never helped me clean up, which made me feel like you didn’t value my time” will help your partner understand why you were upset by their actions and help them see things from your point of view.
If you are communicating with your child about the break-up, ensure you sit the child down and tell them together. This will ensure you put on a united front and help the child to feel comfortable with the situation, as they will not feel like they have to choose between their parents.
Even if the individual you are separating with is not the biological parent of your child, you should still inform the child of the break-up together. Even if you haven’t been together for a substantial amount of time, it’s likely that your child will have grown attached to your partner and would be confused by their sudden departure.
No matter how long you have been with your partner, or whether or not you have children together, effective communication is vital. Communication will help your break-up to be as healthy as possible, and enable you to protect the mental well-being of yourself and those around you. A break-up is a difficult time, but it can be managed to make it as pain-free as possible.
Our romantic movies have set this image that couples always celebrate a honeymoon period. There is some hypothetical picture that we have related to love life but that’s not true because, in real life, couples do fight, they do have some serious issues and there is nothing called “Perfect couple” and because of all these reasons people start losing the charm towards each other. They try avoiding conversations which leads to break up, even if they don’t want to.
So if you are missing that spark and charm, you can start with these baby steps by doing these things.Continue reading
Irritability and mood swings. Crying bouts. Insomnia.
These are just some of the telltale signs of postpartum depression.
An estimated 300 million people suffer from depression globally. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), more women are affected than men. This would include mothers who had just given birth.
While most mums breeze through pregnancy and motherhood, there are some who are afflicted with a debilitating form of depression.Continue reading
Your relationship choices are yours to make and of course, you are the one that has to live with the consequences of those decisions, and if your preference is to hook up with someone other than your spouse, then so be it, but make it a good one.
The old saying ‘Go big or go home’ rings a bell in this situation. We all want to be the best at whatever we put our minds into, whether it’s our career, sports or even a relationship, so let’s dive into the ins and outs of marital affairs and be on the top podium spot at the end.
For those couples who seem to have hit a ‘lull’ in their relationship, the light seems to have dimmed or the initial excitement phase has worn off, the new therapy tends to be online. No more making appointments and going into a stiff office filled with a large couch, books and a wall of certificates stating the name of a person you’re paying money to so they can tell you what to do.
It’s simply registering, uploading your profile picture and filling in the details you want a perspective companion to know. And you can be safe in knowing that everyone on the app has the same intentions, so no worrying about not wanting anything long-term.
They are looking for that spark that once was, the ‘urge’ they used to feel when they were with that special someone, only this time it’s without all drama and no strings attached. Look here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Online_dating_application and read up on its origins and effects.
We might think we know what an affair is, but do we see the decision behind the scenes that leads to it?
So then what is an affair? Well, textbook versions let us know that it is the attraction and secret relationship formed between two people, but without the involved persons other half knowing about it.
A lot goes into the final choice when deciding to go through with it, actions and reactions, events or consequences, either way, something usually significant had an impact in the role.
The thing is, affairs haven’t just come to light in recent years, this short history video shows you how it happened way back in the history of stories, and will surely happen in future times. Being considered very much taboo in the past, we need to reflect on their mistakes and see a clearer path for our relationships going forward.
As I said before if this slice of cake is not your flavor then no harm no foul, but if it is, then enjoy the icing while it lasts. Couples who take on this role need to be open with each other, but more importantly, both parties must be happy with the decision, or the main relationship will crumble.
Tendencies of bringing in an extra person to the mix seem to help some couples, with the spouse looking to ultimately please the other, allowing this person to please the partner in a way they might fall short at. It’s not for all of us but married dating can be done, done well and go on for years to come.
The main reason, in my opinion, is that you are looking for something completely different from what you have at the moment. A 180 degree look at what excites you, to indulge in the other side of the coin and to be ‘that’ person with 2 slices of cake, yes you heard me.
You get a thrill from knowing you are doing something dangerous, risky and walking on eggshells hoping to never bump into them down the local pub or grocery store. You want to see if you can get-away-with-it.
Your home life has become stagnant, predictable and mundane. This is not what you signed up for, so going in search of the sprinkles for the cake seems to be the next step, besides, eating the same flavor cake day in and day out will become boring if you don’t add some spice into the mix.
Nevertheless, it’s out there, it’s happening,and it seems to be on the rise. Whichever flavor cake you decide to order, be sure to eat it ‘safely.’
Throughout history, the buying and selling of sex has been a staple in many different civilisations. Additionally, it is not unlike the growing fields of technology, music and athletics. Like these other cultural interests, sex work has evolved through the ages. Both the West and the Eastern world share a similar struggle for knowledge and understanding. In the West, sex work was initially limited to an elite and educated, a time period called the Renaissance, when sexual pleasure was associated with the birth of poetry, art and literature. Sex work was viewed as being tolerated and almost acknowledged by the courts, but largely unknown by common people. In the East, sex was seen as something that had to be hidden and protected.
Sex work should be seen as a valid profession, and sex workers should be treated as any other career. People who pay for sex should be treated with respect and with respect for their work. Conversely, individuals who practice sex work, in any of its forms, should be treated with respect as well. Nobody talks down to ambulance chasing attorneys, yet they predatory. They still serve a purpose in their society, as do those that work in the sex industry.
Through the various different types of sex work (burlesque dancers, sex chat, custom picture and video production, professional porn stars, escorts, strippers), many people support their families on their income. It is not degrading, nor is it a substandard profession. Why does society look down upon the various sex workers, yet applaud the individuals that solicit those in the sex work fields?
Working as a prostitute or escort worker can be psychologically draining, particularly if you find it hard to leave your job. People who choose this profession have to take responsibility for the consequences and should be permitted to make their own choices. The only time you should have a licence to hire or work as a prostitute is when you are using sex work as a source of income. Ensure the conditions for sex workers are legal and suitable to work in and reflect the integrity of those who do it. Only through acceptance and regulation can these assorted professions within the sex workers community receive the respect that they deserve.
If you are in need of companionship, or sexual release, you should be encouraged to consult with a local sex worked in your community. They are people like anyone else, and offer a unique service that could benefit nearly any consenting adult. Helping those that are lonely, or those that are in need of sexual release, in the past they were seen as a type of healer, and necessary for a society to function properly.
The next time you see a sex worker, don’t look down on them. They are providing a much needed service to your community. One day you may be in need of their services, and should that day arrive, please remember to treat them with the dignity and respect that their profession deserves.
Choosing a good husband or wife is crucial and choosing the right person is very important in your future, so pre-marriage conditions should not be forgotten.Choosing the proper husband or wife has become one of the major concerns and the most important decision of young girls and boys, so that if their choice is made properly, future problems can be largely reduced. Although the future cannot be predicted, the problems can be reduced by choosing the right decision. Some young people see love as the only condition for marriage, but it is not just about choosing a spouse and it is worth pointing out that we have spoken about it in this humorous part. Here are some important tips and prerequisite in choosing your husband or wife:
When two people are planning to get married, their families need to be culturally compatible. If we do not consider families in marriage and only love is our standard, we will face many difficulties because after marriage we also have to have contact with them and it is impossible to get rid of the family body. Families that are more intimate with each other and lack violence, divorce, and addiction are more suited to marriage because their children have fewer family problems.
One of the main criteria for choosing your husband or wife is to pay attention to physical and mental health. You can go to a psychologist to find out about your future husband’s or wife’s mental health so that he or she can tell you about your future spouse’s personality disorder using personality tests and personality traits, because marriage has serious problems with personality disorders. Or those who suffer from homosexuality, self-harm, child abuse, etc. should not be selected for marriage. These disorders may affect your marital relationship or continue to lead a life-enhancing relationship.
Education is one of the most important prerequisites for marriage. It would be better if coupleshave the same educational degree and be in almost the same level.
Before marriage, the level of income and even how much money the parties have to spend should be determined so that they do not get into trouble in the future.Someone who lacks financial independence will definitely give his life independence to others.
When choosing your partner, you must consider each other’s religious beliefs and speak clearly to one another because a religious person cannot marry a non-religious person and may have trouble in the future.Those who believe in gender superiority like feminists and patriarchs and whose behavior originates in this belief are not suitable for marriage. Of course, we mean extremism in this regard.
Before marriage, girls and boys must agree on where they live, and if they wish to live in another country, that desire should be mutual.
Some people hide their previous marriage from their partner, but they should be aware that this is a very wrong thing and their spouse has the right to know about it.
Those who constantly control you and dislike your behavior, will not be a good partner for you. Skeptical people have no rationale for what they do, and all they deliver is a handful of apologies. So it is better not to marry such people.
Someone who has a huge age difference with you will not be the right person for you, although at first you may seem justified.Someone who is much younger than you or someone who is much older than you.Age differences- more than ten years- create many difficulties in understanding and interpersonal interactions.
Things like age and family can be negotiated, and things like mental health and personality are not negotiable.
People who suffer from personality disorder are often unaware of their illness and consider their behavior to be normal, but behaviors such as suspicion and doubt are quite unbearable for their spouse, so it is best to consult a marriage counselor. Those who constantly control you and dislike your behavior. You’re always confused about your relationship with them. Skeptical people have no rationale for what they do, and all they deliver is a handful of apologies. So it is better to marry such people.
What should you do if you find out there are serious problems in your husband’s or wife’s family. Before joining such a family, you need to ponder and delay marriage and seek counseling. The counselor in this case is somewhat familiar with the personality of the individual and their family. Since family problems may also affect the upbringing of children, contact with such families where there are multiple drug addicts or divorce rates among family members and even first-degree relatives is of high risk and may be dangerous.
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Do you know what it takes to impress a lady? Is it the eyes that women find attractive or it’s the color of skin? Despite the years of studies, books, poems, romantic comedies that have tried to tackle the critical subject of what motivates opposite sex, men still fail to unlock the mysteries.
But, folks! Just because you will never figure out what precise goes inside women heads, doesn’t mean they can’t attract any women. Of course, every woman is different, but there are some common traits that they value in men. Here are some personality traits that can make women fall in love with you:Continue reading
We would all have a dream to a big penis. However, there is no way you would consider dangerous methods such as surgery, pills or pumps. Believe it or not, that your food plays a huge part in whether you can increase your penis size. Penis enlargement is made possible by increasing the blood flow to the spongy and elasticized cell tissues of the penis. Over time a large amount of blood flowing through these tissues can cause them to expand and eventually this will make the size big of your penis. But the question is how to make your penis big with food? Accordingly, anything you can do to increase the circulation of the blood may cause to increase the size of your penis. Steer clear of fatty, starchy and sugary foods. Ensure you eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and aim to eat lots of lean protein. This can include skinless, chicken, turkey, eggs, tuna, salmon, mackerel and trout. Finally, make sure to drink 2-3 cold water in a day.
Some important things to increase the size of the penis
Exercise your penis 15 minutes in a day and carry on this process 5 days in a week. When you do exercise the circulation of the blood becomes more increases and once the circulation of the blood increases the size of the penis also becomes increase. When you take to exercise the spongy tissue of the penis becomes larger and the circulation also becomes increases so the size of the penis also increases. Another type of exercise the stretching exercise, when you take stretching penis exercise, it may help to stretch the ligament which is placed at the top of the penis. The penis is surrounded by different types of ligaments and once these ligaments stretch the size of the penis may also increase. If you take proper diet and take healthy foods like fruits and healthy vegetable like onion, onion is the best thing to increase the size of the penis and if you take 3 exercises in a day when you see an increase in the size of the penis after a few weeks. For more significant, continue this process for 6 to 12 months for the better result.
Everyone has a wish nowadays to have a bid and erect penis. If you really want to enjoy the bedroom activities then one must have a big penis. And if you have a small penis then you cannot satisfy your partner and its very shameful. So everyone has a desire to have a big penis, to increase the size of the penis, the peoples use different kinds of things like different pills, oils, herbs, extenders and different types of the pump to increase the size of the penis. But to increase the size of your penis then you must give first priority to your foods because the food is the natural supplement to increase the size of the penis. Take healthy and nutritious food always like eggs, white meat, salmon and onion etc which is helpful to increase the size and erection of the penis.
It seems that we all know how crushing it can feel to say goodbye to someone with whom we shared that phenomenon called love. All the sad and beautiful things that can happen to one couple prove to be the best lessons that life can teach us. Time makes havoc in relationships and one day you realize that you are still in that relationship due to inertia. There is no longer love, there is no desire, there is no longer interest. Continue reading