After being married for a couple years, many men report feeling a lack of passion in their relationship, that something is missing.
But besides knowing that something is off, men don’t know what the exact problem is nor what to do about it…
In this article you will learn how to make your wife happy with you so that she wants to be dedicated to you, love you and infuse your marriage with passionate love!
Every woman wants a man that is passionate about his mission in life.
Let me share with you a little known fact: your wife doesn’t want to be number one in your life, she wants your mission in life to be number one!
Here’s how David D. explains it:
A woman sometimes seems to want to be the most important thing in her man’s life.
However, if she is the most important thing, then she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to divine growth and service.
She will feel her man’s dependence on her for his happiness, and this will make her feel smothered by his neediness and clinging.
A woman really wants her man to be totally dedicated to his highest purpose—and also to love her fully.
Although she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.
The more purposeful you are in your life, the more your wife will desire you, but how can you find your purpose?
And if none of these ideas spark passionate thoughts in your head, just start doing anything and ideas will start popping up in your head.
Most men stop going to the gym after being married for a number of years, but you can’t fall into thit trap because you know that your wife wants you to be ripped.
If you’re overweight, that’s OK. Just start by jogging every day and eating slightly less.
Once you get past that, start doing basic calisthenic exercises or go to a gym so that you build up your upper body and get that sexy, masculine look.
But the key is to be consistent. Going every day no matter what creates transformation, not 5 times a month!
But once you are muscular, make sure to demonstrate your strength too!
Now that you’re on your purpose and building muscle, you’re ready for step 3…
How to ugly guys get hot girlfriends?
How do short guys bang 9’s and 10’s?
How do broke guys get married to smoking hot chicks?
The answer is: confidence.
Because ultimately, confidence is what attracts any girl.
If you want to rekindle that passionate love with your wife, you must increase your level of confidence (and competence) by consistently challenging your fears.
Here’s what I mean:
Bottom line: any fear that is unnecessary, take daily action to eliminate it.
Knowing how to get your wife horny is another crucial step to maintaining a happy marriage. Thankfully it’s a lot simpler than most guys make it!
Here’s a couple of good steps to get her totally turned on and aroused:
But of course, each girl is different so instead of learning how women respond in general, ask your wife what she loves the most.
You really want her to be crazy in love with you? Show her passionate, unexpected love. Here are some examples:
If she’s in a bad mood, sweep in, pick her up and kiss her passionately for at least a 30 seconds and once you’re done, give her a big hug until she has a big smile.
If she’s mindlessly browning social media while lying down, jump on her, pin her down and get kinky! (Sometimes, no foreplay is better.)
If she’s bored as hell, take her out for the date of her life and develop an even closer emotional connection. Surprise dates can be the best dates!
One word of caution: everyone has their own love language so make sure to show your wife love the way she wants it.
Does she feel loved when you give her a big hug? Then give her more physical touch.
Does she feel loved when you tell her how much you love her? Then give her more words of affirmation.
Does she feel loved when you have an intimate date together? Then give her more quality time.
Find her love language and give her as much love as you have!
Don’t read this article and imagine that your marriage will now be perfect.
Every marriage will have it’s occasional hiccups, but that shouldn’t stop you from making it as good as you can!
So here’s what you need to do: continuously learn about relationships and what makes them work.
But there’s one last crucial point you can’t miss: real transformations take time.
I get it: reading this article took you 2 minutes. But if you want to see real world results, you need to be patient.
And I mean really patient.
It may take months, it may take years, but as long as you take consistent action and focus on your goal, you will see results!