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Online Dating Changed My Life

Around this time last year I decided to finally give online dating a chance after days, months and even years of deliberation. At the tender age of 43 I thought I was destined to be single forever, with a barely existent social life as well. I’m now over the moon that I stumbled across the world of online dating and specifically a mature dating website for singles which was perfect for my situation.

Early Life

From a young age I had always been driven by money and focused purely on my job week after week until before I knew it half my life seemed to pass by in a flash. Suddenly I took a step back for a minute to evaluate what I was doing with my life and what sort of future I would have if I carried on down this same path. I certainly wouldn’t say I had a midlife crisis but I quickly realised that there were other priorities ahead of work and money that life has to offer which I still hadn’t witnessed yet.

I began to panic thinking that it was too late but I had plenty of reassurance from my family, work colleagues and seeing it for myself on TV that age is just a number. There’s nothing stopping a 43 year old man like me doing the same as a 25 year old man (to a degree at least).

Change

In the blink of an eye I began to change my ways, starting with a healthier lifestyle by eating cleaner and joining a gym.  I have quite an obsessive personality so once I have my mind set on something I pretty much go all out with it. So thankfully, the gym and eating well soon became a routine which wasn’t too hard to maintain. But I also needed to start meeting and socialising with people too. I was so caught up and involved with my job that I missed out on making friends outside of work. The only people I spoke to looking back now were colleagues where almost all the conversation was work related.

I still struggled to find the time to meet new people even with my change in lifestyle. Even though I now set aside time for the gym I still didn’t really communicate with many people there. Most people in the gym have headphones in and are there purely for the health benefits, which to be fair is the main reason for their existence. It was difficult even finding a place where I would have a chance of finding a friend or partner, never mind then talking to them and getting to know them. I don’t really have any hobbies other than football but again that isn’t the ideal hobby to find a girlfriend in most cases.

Online Dating

At my age it isn’t easy to just go out and meet a woman in a bar or club. In all honestly, I feel like I would have been judged by younger people if I was out in the same places as them. That’s why I eventually gave in and tried the online dating scene. For some reason I had always been against online dating but I didn’t really have a valid reason as to why. I think it was a pride thing. I thought I was above it. Let me tell you now that online dating is not something to be ashamed about at all now that I have witnessed the immense benefits it brings. I wish I had done it earlier!

One night after yet another routine day at work, I decided to log back on to my laptop and started searching for dating websites. For the older generation more specifically since I didn’t want to attract people much younger than me and looking for much different things. I was looking to settle down, perhaps start a family, although the thought of actually admitting that was a little scary for me to comprehend. But that’s when I came across a website called YourMatureDating.com.

I decided to sign up that night since I thought there was nothing to lose and it was free to sign up. I browsed some of the profiles on the site and I have to be honest that I did see some very nice women that caught my eye immediately. But at this point I was still a bit skeptical about what I was doing. I logged off soon after that but I had got the ball rolling at least and had the right intentions to find a partner.

A few nights later I went back on and this time I messaged one of the women that I liked the look and sound of by her profile. She had amazing eyes that caught my attention because of the slight sparkle they had. Her interests too excited me. She pretty much seemed to have the exact same past I had, in that her work dictated her life.

Today

Two years on from that initial message and I am now engaged to her. I decided to propose recently and thankfully for me she said yes! Never in a million years did I expect to fall in love so quickly and find someone so amazing and so similar to me. I wanted to share my story so others in my position weren’t afraid to do the same as me. I am so thankful for online dating and I truly believe there are thousands of other stories just like mine out there too.

Today I am ecstatic with the way my life has panned out. From experiencing the ways of business and working hard for money to now looking to start a family I feel like I have been incredibly fortunate.

How Technology Transforms the Dating Area

Casual, Simple and Harmless Flirtation

If potential wooers were to ponder some of the greatest, technological developments that have revolutionized the dating world over the past few centuries, they would primarily mention the genius invention of the automobile. This marvelous progression was first forged in 1886 and obviously replaced animal-drafted carriages for a more pleasant and efficient dating experience. Not too soon after followed the first black and white film in 1888 and obviously the actual movie theater to view these motion pictures in 1895, which created the ideal atmosphere to enjoy a passionate evening with a possible suitor, hand in hand.

Nonetheless, upon the dawn of “Generation Z” in 2001, mobile and wireless technology suffered a massive “boom,” completely altering the fashion in which people converse, get to know each other and meet up without the necessity of face-to-face courtship at first hand. Text messages, free messenger systems like WhatsApp and other online social networks like Facebook have stolen and flooded the limelight of our dating world (from America to Europe). Interestingly enough, now potential suitors have the ability to transmit “smooth talk” immediately without the nerve wrecking delay of a hand-written response via snail mail. Additionally, with the overall casualness of a text message, possible admirers could conquer their “prey” with a higher level of confidence and less initial pressure.

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Prenup Photoshoot

Prenup Goals: How to Plan a Perfect Prenup Photoshoot

Weddings are always faced with joyous hearts and positive attitude. It’s a celebration of love and togetherness between two people and their families. It’s so monumental that every step of it—from the preparations up to the wedding day itself are documented in various forms.

A part of it that’s gaining a lot of attraction and trending now is the prenup photoshoot. It allows the couple to document their memories and feelings when their wedding day is just around the corner.

The nervousness and the excitement can all be seen in these wedding and prenup photos, making it a great piece of memory to look back to. You can tell your backstory to your family and future children with matching photos to have the full experience of this once in a lifetime moment.

So, what are the specific things you can do to make sure you have a perfect prenup photoshoot? Here are some tips you should keep in mind before you and your loved one pose for the camera:

 

  1. Sit down with your partner and talk about your history

One way to help you decide on the theme and everything is to look back at how your love for each other started. The day when you first met, the location, and even some quirky things like the food on your first date or the day he or she finally met your family—these are all things which can help you intensify the emotion and decide on a theme you both surely want.

 

  1. Identify each other’s common interests

Through the time that you are together, you have definitely talked to each other about your common interests. These are the things that strengthened your relationship and could be a helpful element in having a perfect prenup photoshoot. You can start with the activities you both enjoy doing or some favorite hobbies like watching movies, eating out, or binge watching a TV series.

By sourcing your pegs from these, you can make sure that both of you are comfortable in front of the camera because these activities and hobbies are familiar as the back of your hands. You’ll also make sure that the prenup photoshoot concept already has a meaning for the both of you.

 

  1. Find pegs for inspiration

After deciding on a theme, you can already build a mood board for all your inspirations. From color palette, hair, makeup, outfit, and even the location, you can find pegs for inspiration for each aspect.

This is to ensure that all your decisions and purchases are in line with the theme you’ve chosen. Surely, you want everything to look cohesive. However, don’t be eaten up by the theme alone. Keep in mind that this is about the both of you, so make sure both of your personalities are evident in person and in photos.

 

  1. Look for your happy place

Finding the perfect location can be a tricky one. The travel time, the weather, and the capacity of the location to actually hold a photo shoot (permits and fees) should all be considered by the couple.

Whatever romance and love mean to the both of you, choose that location. You don’t have to be in line with the standards or where most of the couples are taking theirs. Just be in the location you both want to be because when you look back, you’ll find it meaningful and extra special.

 

  1. Know your photographer

The next step is to relay these ideas to your photographer. It is important that the ideas in your mood board and the vibe of the location should translate to the photos that the photographer is going to take.

Even if your photographer is as great as Ralph Wunsch, he won’t be able to execute without a proper brief. Be comfortable with the photographer to not look tense and anxious in the photos.

By getting to know the man behind the lens, both of you will be comfortable with each other and shoot wonderful photos.

 

  1. Schedule everything

Create a timeline for everything to prepare all the things you need. By setting a schedule, not only do you respect the time of all the people involved, but also you and your partner’s peace of mind. The last thing you want in prenup photoshoot is an incomplete set and a hurried schedule.

 

  1. Live in the moment

And lastly, after everything is all set, enjoy and live in the moment. This is a special moment for the both of you. You’ve waited for this moment for such a long time, and it’s now finally coming true.

Don’t be too pressured to strike a perfect pose or have an emotion. All of these should come naturally. Focus on you and your partner and let the photographer do his wonders. Breathe in and breathe out. All will turn out as you expected them to be.
With these tips in mind, you’ll surely have a prenup photoshoot both you and your partner will never forget.

 

Must Read Engagement Ring Facts

Are you about to pop the question? Here’s what you need to know about engagement rings.

The engagement ring is an ever-present reminder of the time you got engaged to the love of your life. It is a symbol of love and represents the bond you share with your partner.

Now, the average cost of an engagement ranges anywhere from $1000 to $6000. So picking up the right engagement ring requires some taught and research.  If your future wife is choosing it herself, half the job is done. But if you are going to surprise your special one with a sparkling engagement ring and go down on your keen to pop the question, finding the best possible ring should be your top priority.

Every year big, reputable jewelry brands design stunning rings. Luckily for you, there are thousands to choose from. Make sure that you question her friends before purchasing the ring, they might know her style better than you do! Here, we have collected 20 facts about engagement rings to help you with your buying decision. A big decision to make because this is going to be the purchase that lasts for a lifetime. A purchase that’s going to cost you a large sum of money!

 

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This infographic was researched and designed by Elena from www.americantungsten.com – rings for him

How Can Jealousy Ruin Your Marital Life – Jealousy in Marriage

How Can Jealousy Ruin Your Marital Life – Jealousy in Marriage

Have you ever seen an award show of Hollywood film industry, if yes then you must saw the nominations, which are based on a number of actors but finally an anchor revealed the name of the award winner? All the other actors’ applause for who wins the award, but one face from particular award nomination not seemed to be happy and often show some negative facial expression against the winner. This particular feeling is known as the jealousy.  So, it does not mean that it only belongs to the actors from the film fraternity, it also belongs to the all of the characters belongs to the world. So, in short, it can be anyone who is jealous of someone. Continue reading

Online Dating Tips

Dating Tips for Successful Dating

Dating is when two individuals interact socially with the intention of checking compatibility for a long term association. Dating may lead to marriage or it could be a casual association. Dating entails two strangers getting to know each other better.

In earlier times, individuals met each other at social gatherings, parties, churches, schools, colleges, workplace, pubs, etc. Nowadays, people are preferring online methods for dating. Whether one is looking for a long term relationship or a casual fling, there are sites which cater to different needs.Continue reading

Relationship Toxic

6 “Normal” Habits That Can Turn A Relationship Toxic

No relationship is perfect. No matter how healthy and happy a couple’s relationship is, fighting is still inevitable. However, disagreements in healthy relationships are way different from the ones in toxic relationships.

Toxic habits are suffocating, demeaning, and full of a bunch of unnecessary drama. What’s more dangerous is the fact that most people think they are normal, and this may keep people from distinguishing that there’s something wrong in the relationship that they need to address.Continue reading

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11 Romantic Habits Couples In Happiest Marriages Have

I do not believe in forever but I do believe in love and the possibility of keeping a marriage happy for a lifetime.

I have seen it. I have seen how my grandparents kept their love strong and healthy for more than 50 years. I have seen the subtle acts of caring, like preparing each other’s coffee and biscuits together every morning and rubbing essential oils on each other’s legs when rheumatism strikes. Continue reading

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5 style mistakes to avoid on a first date

Ahhhh, the agony and the ecstasy of the first date! While we all hope we’ll have a safe turn to Loverville straight after the first kiss, things may go unpredicted with even the slightest mistake.

One of the things we always obsess over is the outfit we’ll wear, right? That one outfit that will knock him dead, make him go weak in the knees. Continue reading

6 things not to do during sex

6 things not to do during sex ? Plus a bonus gift!

You read the attractive man, perhaps followed a seduction coaching. You came to develop a healthy lifestyle, and you are in your sneakers. You link the meetings, and you’re finally powered pole position with the girl that YOU want!

Once you have had your first date, a second. Then comes the moment when you offer him to the last drink at home around this delicious wine that you spoke to him during the evening.Continue reading

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