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How Can Jealousy Ruin Your Marital Life – Jealousy in Marriage

Have you ever seen an award show of Hollywood film industry, if yes then you must saw the nominations, which are based on a number of actors but finally an anchor revealed the name of the award winner? All the other actors’ applause for who wins the award, but one face from particular award nomination not seemed to be happy and often show some negative facial expression against the winner. This particular feeling is known as the jealousy.  So, it does not mean that it only belongs to the actors from the film fraternity, it also belongs to the all of the characters belongs to the world. So, in short, it can be anyone who is jealous of someone. So, jealousy is not a bad thing, while you are in a healthy competition, it boost you up in order to prove yourself a better sportsman, better employee, and better competitor, but it will be bad if this stuff falls in some particular category like in relationship of husband and wife girlfriend or boyfriend then it will cost you heavily.  We all have issues sometimes, mostly spouses used to of regularly tracking their husband’s movements and communications. Husbands mostly want to hide some very normal things from his partner because of her suspicious behavior and because if she comes to know things it could be turned into fights. Sometimes the lack of trust and the suspicious behavior of your partner lead a couple to on the brink of failure.  All the problems if any couple is facing in their relationship are just because of the disease of jealousy.

An Irish writer Elizabeth Bowen once wrote that “a jealousy is nothing but it is a type of feeling of being alone against the smiling enemies” this statement is telling clearly that a state in which a person perceive that all others are happy, joyful and secretly mocking while on the other hand we are lonely and seems to be fooled.

What actually drive jealousy?

So, what actually drive us towards jealousy and make us suffer, is it always just because of smiling enemies? Or something else is contributing as well. We all have some sort of insecurities like a wife has insecurities regarding her husband’s bold secretary and a husband has insecurity regarding her wife that maybe she had a boyfriend in her college days and she is still in contact with your wife.  These sorts of imaginable characters we all have in our minds. Fear is the closest form of jealousy, let’s suppose that someone has a competition with their other colleagues in an office, there would be one single particular character whom you think that he might give you a tough time. So if you have a fear being lost from that particular person will drive you in a state of jealousy. So, fear has the closest relationship with the term jealousy.

Jealousy can ruin a marriage:

It is the very obvious thing, that when a couple doesn’t have an understanding and trust in each other and having a lot of love, that type of relationship cannot remain longer. When a husband or wife has a suspicious mind and he or she always try to spying on each other activities then there would be a number of possibilities that the relationship or marriage will remain no longer. It happens because you might think that your husband has relationship with other women’s too, and may be husband think that her wife is very beautiful and innocent and her boss taking more interest in your wife affairs all these things are indicating the factor of being jealous.  Your partner may be ignoring your childish things because he or she knows you are the one who cares the most about him or her.  If you are going to make a habit of being suspicious then your partner may realize that you should not remain in a relationship, so jealousy is the very harmful disease for the relationship or can ruin your marital life.

Jealousy in marriage:

It is not normal while having jealousy being a married person; there are many factors that can trigger anyone of being jealous. It can cause by many factors like someone have unrealistic expectations from their male or female partners, or having a misunderstood sense of ownership of your spouse, are anyone has experience of betrayal from their loved one, insecurity, poor self-image and scary version of losing anyone or a desire to control their partner. All of these factors in marriage may affect your marital status and your marriage can turn into the breaking of your relationship with your partner.

Can jealousy be overcome?

Yes, by applying positive rules and regulations a couple can be overcome with jealousy. Self-awareness and better understanding are very helpful for a healthy marriage life. A couple should follow few steps then there will be major possibilities to overcome from the curse of jealousy.

  • A person who is insecure or jealous from anything or from a person knows that he or she is jealous or scared, so first, you need to admit that you are jealous and you are the one who is making problems in your marriage.
  • If a person has any issue regarding anything he or she should discuss with your partner that that is the main reason of my jealousy, your partner will automatically take care of all the problems you have and he or she will boost your trust level.
  • When you are making plans to monitor your partner, you are making a big mistake share your insecurities and problems but don’t spy your partner.
  • Counseling is the best thing to do if you are facing the problem of being jealous.
  • Always remember that everyone has the freedom to do anything, so don’t go for controlling your loved one if he or she us yours then he or she will come back for you.
  • Once you married to someone make some rules to follow in order to remove any sort of misconception.

Conclusion:

Jealousy is a curse and it is better to avoid from this suicidal disease, being jealous you can only put harm to yourself and your partner if you are in a relationship or you are married person. Building a healthy relationship is only depends on the level of trust you have made in your relationship. Remove all the fear and scary version you have just try to face if something is really getting worse in your life. Jealousy is not an option, dealing with it is a solution and removing it from your life is the only decision you have to make.

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6 “Normal” Habits That Can Turn A Relationship Toxic

No relationship is perfect. No matter how healthy and happy a couple’s relationship is, fighting is still inevitable. However, disagreements in healthy relationships are way different from the ones in toxic relationships.

Toxic habits are suffocating, demeaning, and full of a bunch of unnecessary drama. What’s more dangerous is the fact that most people think they are normal, and this may keep people from distinguishing that there’s something wrong in the relationship that they need to address.Continue reading

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Top 5 Places to Visit in Kerala for a Romantic Escape

 When looking for romantic escapades, people just go in for beaches or posh resorts. But there is more to explore and experience when it comes to romantic destinations in India.  Kerala, with its serene backwaters, lush greenery, beaches and Ayurveda, definitely tops the list.  There are numerous places in the state which are ideal for couple escapade and you can choose the ones that you like depending on what your preferences are, be it backwaters, beach resorts, wildlife, adventure sports, or tea estates.Continue reading

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Do I Want an Indoor or Outdoor Wedding and Reception?

Planning your dream wedding is definitely something to enjoy and look forward to. But, when you have so many different ideas on what will be the perfect option for this big day, things might get a little bit complicated. No one is so simple that they don’t find beauty in various, sometimes very different things. In that respect, choosing between an indoor and outdoor wedding and reception can really keep you thinking. There’s no one who could say which option is better because both of them can be equally spectacular and endearing. So, if you need some help on deciding, keep reading and you’ll get the necessary perspective on both indoor and outdoor options for your wedding day.

Going for an indoor wedding

Pros

Many venues to choose from

If you set for an indoor wedding and reception, it’s important that you know that looking for a perfect venue will undoubtedly be easier. This is simply because there are many commercial buildings that specialize in wedding receptions. In that respect, you have a free hand to look for whatever venue you find best. Also, most indoor wedding venues can take a lot of guests, so if you dream of a big wedding, this is surely a way to go.

No worries about the weather

With indoor wedding and reception, you don’t have to trouble yourself about setting the really specific date due to the weather. Neither rain nor snow will be able to ruin this important day for you. Be it the hottest or the coldest season of the year, you’ll be able to control the temperature when indoors and make sure that everyone feels comfortable when celebrating your love.

Plenty of décor possibilities

Indoor venues don’t usually come pre-decorated which means that you can basically let your creativity run wild. From wall décor to table pieces, with effective lights and no worries that the wind with will blow out your candles, you can truly make any indoor venue represent your greatest dreams when it comes to décor.

Cons

Unique venues

If you want an indoor wedding but have a certain special place in mind that holds a lot of memories for you and your spouse-to-be, you might stumble upon certain obstacles. Usually, these places require a special permission. But, even if that’s not a problem for you, most of the unique places that can hold a wedding don’t really have adequate space or parking for many guests. Also, if your dream is to hold a thematic wedding in a historical building, your décor options may be limited.

Too many choices

As mentioned before, having many choices when it comes to indoor wedding venues can be a great thing if you really enjoy picking and choosing the right one. Still, if you don’t really like having to make a cut between several perfectly fine venues, than this may be a definite con for you. In general, there are more indoor than outdoor venues and with that much more possibilities, you can easily get stressed out.

Going for an outdoor venue

Pros

Beauty of nature

For some people, there’s no décor that can look better and more glamorous than the natural beauties of fauna. In that respect, those of you who dream of a true fairy tale wedding can really get the most out of an outdoor wedding venue. Also, there’s the possibility to hold a wedding in parks and forests even, which can only add to the mesmerizing atmosphere of this lovely event.

You can find outdoor venues

There are more indoor venues for you to choose, without a doubt, but that doesn’t mean that there are absolutely no outdoor venues for you to look into. Even if smaller in number, outdoor venues can be very charming and some of them also incorporate a closed space and a wonderful garden. In that respect, you can get the best of both worlds.

No need to decorate too much

It’s all about what you find more interesting and pleasing on the eye. For those who enjoy decorative bits and pieces, going for an indoor venue is a given. Still, those who don’t really like to deal with décor too much will find outdoor venues absolutely perfect. Basically, with so many natural décor, there’s no need to trouble yourself with adding a ton of other details. Less is more in this case, which is really important for some couples.

Cons

The question of elements

The inevitable elephant in the room when it comes to outdoor weddings and receptions is the possible issue with weather elements. You have to be really careful about the specific date and even so, you can’t have any guarantee that there won’t be rain or wind to spoil the fun. This is precisely why most couples who dearly wish to hold their wedding in the open look into getting shade sails online so that they can have adequate protection from unwanted atmospheric changes.

Wildlife is not for everyone

Enjoying the picturesque nature is one thing, but fauna is not the only thing that you’ll find when stepping outside for a whole day party. A lot of insects and wildlife can spoil the fun. And even if you’re okay with that, you have to make sure that your guests are, too. This is essential aspect to take into consideration because some people can actually be allergic to pollen, bees, etc.

In the end, you and your partner have to take the time to analyze your best options if you’re truly divided between an indoor and outdoor wedding. In order to do so properly, it would be best to deal with other important wedding aspects beforehand, such as your desired theme and number of guests. That way you will find it much easier to choose the venue that matches your style and party. Still, remember that this is your day to shine and you should always base your final decision on your own preferences.

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Even Samantha Jones Would Hate It: Top 11 Things Never To Say to a Single Woman

Let me tell you, single ladies rule the world in their own right. We can go out on a Tuesday, take a road trip with friends around the holidays, travel the world, or take up pole dancing without having to explain ourselves.

On the other hand, being single can also mean being lonely sometimes, hooking up with strangers who turn out to be married, going on countless bad dates and being judged for not settling down.Continue reading

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Single in a Couple’s World

It doesn’t matter whether you’re into straight, gay, transgender or disabled dating – when you’re single, you’re just like all the other people who don’t have a partner. Although the social standards have changed over time and you don’t have to be married by the age of 25 to be considered normal, it’s still not an easy thing to be single. That’s why we’ve decided to share a few tips on how to survive the life of a single person living in a couple’s world.Continue reading

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How to Have a Deluxe Wedding without Breaking the Bank

Have you always imagined a glamorous wedding, an elegant venue, wearing a lavish wedding gown, but without having to sacrifice your entire savings for it? If the answer is “Yes”, you’re in luck because now you can have a gorgeous luxury wedding without going completely broke. With a few tricks, your décor, flowers, glamour-inspired centrepieces, the venue and every other segment of the wedding will look deluxe and you won’t have to spend a fortune.Continue reading

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5 style mistakes to avoid on a first date

Ahhhh, the agony and the ecstasy of the first date! While we all hope we’ll have a safe turn to Loverville straight after the first kiss, things may go unpredicted with even the slightest mistake.

One of the things we always obsess over is the outfit we’ll wear, right? That one outfit that will knock him dead, make him go weak in the knees. Continue reading

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6 things not to do during sex ? Plus a bonus gift!

You read the attractive man, perhaps followed a seduction coaching. You came to develop a healthy lifestyle, and you are in your sneakers. You link the meetings, and you’re finally powered pole position with the girl that YOU want!

Once you have had your first date, a second. Then comes the moment when you offer him to the last drink at home around this delicious wine that you spoke to him during the evening.Continue reading

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8 Crucial Warnings Of Non-Physical Abuse That Are Just As Deadly

When we say “abuse” and “domestic violence”, a clear picture of a battered person with black eyes and bruises quickly pops in our minds. However, domestic violence comes in different forms, and physical abuse is just one of them. Domestic violence can also be emotional, and it feels way deadlier than sores and wounds.

To begin with, let us break down eight clear signs you are being abused by your partner without lifting his heavy hands on you – yet.Continue reading

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