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The possibilities of making the kinds of connections you want are very realistic, and many long lasting relationships and marriages have begun via online dating services, not to mention casual relationships as well if that is what you prefer. The possibilities are all right there and waiting for you, but there are a few key rules you need to know and follow in order to find your perfect date online. Download to learn The Golden Rules of Online Dating – 6 essential rules to finding the perfect online date!

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4 Tips for Making Your Best Impression on a First Date

Whether you met someone online or in-person, the first date can seem intimidating. It’s all about making a good first impression, and many people fear leaving the wrong impression. These tips can ensure that you leave a great first impression on your date. And if all goes well, you may be looking at a second date.

 

  1. Wear something you love

Whether you’re a man or a woman, wearing clothes that you love can make a great impression. Pair them with highly recommended beauty products, like the ones sold on b3products.com, and you have a winning combination. Doing so lets your date know that you cared enough to put some effort into your wardrobe. And your appearance is one of the first thing your date will notice. What you wear can impact their impression of you.

But it’s more than just how you look. Wearing clothes that you feel good in gives you confidence. That confidence goes a long way. It can affect the way your date perceives you and make you seem more appealing.

 

  1. Keep the conversation going

You might have a million questions for your date. Instead of asking them all at once, save them. Focus on keeping the conversation moving and don’t focus on checking off your list of questions. Don’t be afraid to make observations or share a few personal stories. While you might not want to get too in-depth, it’s good to get a little personal.

If there are any awkward pauses in the conversation, don’t get nervous. Ask one of the questions you have. Or, use the opportunity to talk about your surroundings. It’s easier than you think to keep a conversation moving. Don’t let the fear of the awkward silence stop you from going on your date.

 

  1. Keep the affection to a minimum

While you might be into PDAs, the first date is not a good time for you to show your affection. Touching should be very natural and friendly in nature. It shouldn’t be sexual or forced. During the beginning of the date, you want to keep your hands to yourself. And if the date takes a turn for the better, then the affection will come naturally.

 

  1. Get creative with the venue

Your first date doesn’t have to be dinner or coffee. Some people have a hard time opening up in those types of venues. If you’re nervous about having dinner with your date, consider a different type of venue. Invite your date to something that you enjoy. If you’re an artist, take a wine and painting class together. Or if you love baseball, attend a local game. Your date can always decline the invitation if they’re not interested. But if they accept, it can be a good opportunity to bond over something you enjoy.

 

The world of dating can be scary. But it doesn’t have to be scary. You need to remember that there is someone out there for you. And remember that once you can get the first date out of the way, you might start to enjoy dating.

Online Dating Changed My Life

Around this time last year I decided to finally give online dating a chance after days, months and even years of deliberation. At the tender age of 43 I thought I was destined to be single forever, with a barely existent social life as well. I’m now over the moon that I stumbled across the world of online dating and specifically a mature dating website for singles which was perfect for my situation.

Early Life

From a young age I had always been driven by money and focused purely on my job week after week until before I knew it half my life seemed to pass by in a flash. Suddenly I took a step back for a minute to evaluate what I was doing with my life and what sort of future I would have if I carried on down this same path. I certainly wouldn’t say I had a midlife crisis but I quickly realised that there were other priorities ahead of work and money that life has to offer which I still hadn’t witnessed yet.

I began to panic thinking that it was too late but I had plenty of reassurance from my family, work colleagues and seeing it for myself on TV that age is just a number. There’s nothing stopping a 43 year old man like me doing the same as a 25 year old man (to a degree at least).

Change

In the blink of an eye I began to change my ways, starting with a healthier lifestyle by eating cleaner and joining a gym.  I have quite an obsessive personality so once I have my mind set on something I pretty much go all out with it. So thankfully, the gym and eating well soon became a routine which wasn’t too hard to maintain. But I also needed to start meeting and socialising with people too. I was so caught up and involved with my job that I missed out on making friends outside of work. The only people I spoke to looking back now were colleagues where almost all the conversation was work related.

I still struggled to find the time to meet new people even with my change in lifestyle. Even though I now set aside time for the gym I still didn’t really communicate with many people there. Most people in the gym have headphones in and are there purely for the health benefits, which to be fair is the main reason for their existence. It was difficult even finding a place where I would have a chance of finding a friend or partner, never mind then talking to them and getting to know them. I don’t really have any hobbies other than football but again that isn’t the ideal hobby to find a girlfriend in most cases.

Online Dating

At my age it isn’t easy to just go out and meet a woman in a bar or club. In all honestly, I feel like I would have been judged by younger people if I was out in the same places as them. That’s why I eventually gave in and tried the online dating scene. For some reason I had always been against online dating but I didn’t really have a valid reason as to why. I think it was a pride thing. I thought I was above it. Let me tell you now that online dating is not something to be ashamed about at all now that I have witnessed the immense benefits it brings. I wish I had done it earlier!

One night after yet another routine day at work, I decided to log back on to my laptop and started searching for dating websites. For the older generation more specifically since I didn’t want to attract people much younger than me and looking for much different things. I was looking to settle down, perhaps start a family, although the thought of actually admitting that was a little scary for me to comprehend. But that’s when I came across a website called YourMatureDating.com.

I decided to sign up that night since I thought there was nothing to lose and it was free to sign up. I browsed some of the profiles on the site and I have to be honest that I did see some very nice women that caught my eye immediately. But at this point I was still a bit skeptical about what I was doing. I logged off soon after that but I had got the ball rolling at least and had the right intentions to find a partner.

A few nights later I went back on and this time I messaged one of the women that I liked the look and sound of by her profile. She had amazing eyes that caught my attention because of the slight sparkle they had. Her interests too excited me. She pretty much seemed to have the exact same past I had, in that her work dictated her life.

Today

Two years on from that initial message and I am now engaged to her. I decided to propose recently and thankfully for me she said yes! Never in a million years did I expect to fall in love so quickly and find someone so amazing and so similar to me. I wanted to share my story so others in my position weren’t afraid to do the same as me. I am so thankful for online dating and I truly believe there are thousands of other stories just like mine out there too.

Today I am ecstatic with the way my life has panned out. From experiencing the ways of business and working hard for money to now looking to start a family I feel like I have been incredibly fortunate.

How Technology Transforms the Dating Area

Casual, Simple and Harmless Flirtation

If potential wooers were to ponder some of the greatest, technological developments that have revolutionized the dating world over the past few centuries, they would primarily mention the genius invention of the automobile. This marvelous progression was first forged in 1886 and obviously replaced animal-drafted carriages for a more pleasant and efficient dating experience. Not too soon after followed the first black and white film in 1888 and obviously the actual movie theater to view these motion pictures in 1895, which created the ideal atmosphere to enjoy a passionate evening with a possible suitor, hand in hand.

Nonetheless, upon the dawn of “Generation Z” in 2001, mobile and wireless technology suffered a massive “boom,” completely altering the fashion in which people converse, get to know each other and meet up without the necessity of face-to-face courtship at first hand. Text messages, free messenger systems like WhatsApp and other online social networks like Facebook have stolen and flooded the limelight of our dating world (from America to Europe). Interestingly enough, now potential suitors have the ability to transmit “smooth talk” immediately without the nerve wrecking delay of a hand-written response via snail mail. Additionally, with the overall casualness of a text message, possible admirers could conquer their “prey” with a higher level of confidence and less initial pressure.

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Going on a blind date? Top ideas to get ready for it

Are you getting ready for an exciting blind date this Saturday evening? Do you want to know how you can look your best without spending 3 hours in front of the mirror? Some women don’t have time to do their makeup, whereas others are just no longer interested in putting all sorts of chemicals on their faces. The cosmetics industry has changed tremendously in the past 10 years. The trends have been completely altered to match with our complexions and personalities, and at this point all we want is to look incredible without making our faces look artificial. Here are some guidelines to help you have a killer blind date and make a good impression.

Choose comfortable, stylish clothes

One of the biggest challenges of a blind date – choosing the clothes. How do you make the right choice? The most important thing is that you feel comfortable. Think twice before deciding to wear heels, or a skirt that may seem too flashy. A casual, stylish outfit works the best. A white, simple shirt with a pair of A-line pants can work miracles. Go overboard with the accessories – you wouldn’t want to look to business-like.

Sleek, casual, loose hair

Getting ready for a first blind date starts with hair. Some men just don’t care about what you’re wearing from the neck down. But they might be interested in how your hair looks like. It’s fundamental that you keep things simple and natural. You don’t want to make the wrong impression. If you love curls, you can get them. But steer clear of that artificial curly look with perfect waves. Messy, playful waves might seem a lot better. Or go for a funky braid with a side-swept bangs. Whatever you do, just limit the use of too make hair products. All-natural works the best!

Make-up

As far as make-up is concerned, we don’t advise you to go over the top. Increasingly more men have started preferring women who wear all natural makeup. Too much foundation, striking eye shadow and red lips just don’t look appealing. Rather than use foundation, choose a light BB cream. Use an illuminator in the cheekbone area, some blush and nude tones for the eyes and lips.

As for eyebrows, you might want to keep things all natural, too. A fresh face that looks impeccable without too much make-up will make a better impression than a very striking one that’s just aiming to hide who you really are.

Accessories and perfume

Excessive perfume should be avoided at all costs on a first date. That’s because you can’t know for sure if your date will like the aroma. Maybe he’s not that into lavender and jasmine scents. Use a discreet perfume and you’ll have better chances to draw attention. As far as accessories are concerned, it might be a good idea to keep things on the down low. Just remember that it’s a blind date. Basically, you don’t know the person you’re talking to because you’ve never met. Wear elegant, discreet accessories. A thin golden necklace with a pendant, pearl earrings and maybe a watch should be enough.

Looking amazing on a first date doesn’t have to be that hard. The secret is to be yourself, and no pretend to be someone else. Act natural and let him uncover your personality. Natural makeup works best because your date will see the real you. Stay focused on quality products and you’ll have a lot to win. A beautiful and clean complexion without too much eyeshadow and primer is sexier than a smoky eye makeup that creates an illusion.

Last but not least, we must emphasize that going on a blind these days can be nerve-wracking. What if you get a pimple just before the big day? But if you learn to take good care of yourself and your body, everything will be ok. Beauty comes from within. Drink plenty of water to have a clean and smooth skin, and invest in natural foundation uk and organic make-up products to allow the skin to breathe. Be confident and trust that you’re beautiful – that’s the key to an amazing bling date with someone you really like.

 

 

Online Interracial Dating tips

The Basics of Virtual Dating

So, for most ‘normal’ or traditional couples, they meet, take each other out, date and get to know each other. This is how it’s been for a while. But with the Internet age, the idea of normal couples goes out the window. Traditional is thrown to the side in favour of attraction and true compatibility. New concepts like virtual dating and Online Interracial Dating are in vogue for people ready to hit on the dating scenario.

But how can you date someone who lives halfway across the world – or even just a few hundred miles away? How is it possible to actually, truly ‘date’ without ever going on a true date?

Well, the internet is an impressive thing, and it has been connecting people since its start years and years ago. Dating completely and fully virtually is easier than it ever has been, from meeting people to falling in love, conversing and expressing yourself, and much, much more.

When you’re considering online dating… where do you start?

Virtual Dating Websites

The first place to start when looking into dating virtually is the Web sites available to you – there really are countless sites on the ‘net which caters to those looking for companionship, love, and everything in between.

If you are looking into dating sites online, remember to go with a website that’s been around for at least four years – this shows they’re not a fly-by-night, take-your-money-and-run company, but a serious, real company that wants to pair you with someone special.

Never go with a website you don’t feel comfortable with, and if you’re not sure, don’t give your credit card information!

The Basics of Virtual Dating

Virtual Dating for couples

Virtual Dating a growing trend

Many people aren’t really sure where they need to start. They have a profile set up on a good site, and they’re ready to start meeting interesting people. So what do they need? What we all need – the basics.

The first thing you need to do is learn the website that you hope to find love with – understand navigation, how you can search for others profiles, and how to communicate with other members on the website.

The next step, naturally, is meeting people! Search and send messages to people and profiles that are interesting to you, join chat rooms to discuss issues and relate with others, and overall simply meet people.

How To Take a Relationship to the Next Level

Without Ever Meeting the Person

Dating virtually can have certain advantages – but there are disadvantages, too. Many times, those who have relationships online don’t know where to take their relationship, and how to commit themselves to a person they might not have seen in person, but know in their heart.

The first step to learning to really appreciate and date someone online is to commit yourself – unless either of you had talked about it, you are now really dating, just as you would date a person in real life. This means that you need to be clear about the boundaries of the relationship, and if you’re monogamous or not. These things need to be discussed – you know what they say when you assume.

Dating virtually can be done. Its fun, easy, and you can really meet someone incredible. Talking and discussing is key, because you can’t have a relationship online without it – don’t be afraid to open up, and always be honest.

Must Read Engagement Ring Facts

Are you about to pop the question? Here’s what you need to know about engagement rings.

The engagement ring is an ever-present reminder of the time you got engaged to the love of your life. It is a symbol of love and represents the bond you share with your partner.

Now, the average cost of an engagement ranges anywhere from $1000 to $6000. So picking up the right engagement ring requires some taught and research.  If your future wife is choosing it herself, half the job is done. But if you are going to surprise your special one with a sparkling engagement ring and go down on your keen to pop the question, finding the best possible ring should be your top priority.

Every year big, reputable jewelry brands design stunning rings. Luckily for you, there are thousands to choose from. Make sure that you question her friends before purchasing the ring, they might know her style better than you do! Here, we have collected 20 facts about engagement rings to help you with your buying decision. A big decision to make because this is going to be the purchase that lasts for a lifetime. A purchase that’s going to cost you a large sum of money!

 

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This infographic was researched and designed by Elena from www.americantungsten.com – rings for him

15 ways to bring your first date to ruin

The night is still young, you walk in and see the beautiful lady you have been texting for the longest time. It was just the other day that you decided to meet up for a first date. Everything seems blurry to you. This is all new, considering you have been experiencing the longest dry-spell in the history of dry spells. This is definitely a make or break moment for you. The first date either leads to the next or you going back to your ex asking what you did wrong again. It is an avenue to open up to each other, and if you play your cards right, you might actually seal the deal. In order to pull this off, attention to details is key. Continue reading

Online Dating Tips

Dating Tips for Successful Dating

Dating is when two individuals interact socially with the intention of checking compatibility for a long term association. Dating may lead to marriage or it could be a casual association. Dating entails two strangers getting to know each other better.

In earlier times, individuals met each other at social gatherings, parties, churches, schools, colleges, workplace, pubs, etc. Nowadays, people are preferring online methods for dating. Whether one is looking for a long term relationship or a casual fling, there are sites which cater to different needs.Continue reading

Relationship Toxic

6 “Normal” Habits That Can Turn A Relationship Toxic

No relationship is perfect. No matter how healthy and happy a couple’s relationship is, fighting is still inevitable. However, disagreements in healthy relationships are way different from the ones in toxic relationships.

Toxic habits are suffocating, demeaning, and full of a bunch of unnecessary drama. What’s more dangerous is the fact that most people think they are normal, and this may keep people from distinguishing that there’s something wrong in the relationship that they need to address.Continue reading

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Stylish women those who love chatting and flirting

Meeting a Latino woman and chatting with her for several hours is a very interesting affair. Sex craving men those who love endless chatting will love this site since there are tons of beautiful women with whom they can chat with. These girls have lustrous body and exotic breasts. They will be on the screen immediately when the members send an invitation. These chatter boxers will show their awesome body and boobs to the online members and kindle their sexual desire instantly. Continue reading

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